Reminds me of my situation. I'm 53 and the brunette appears to be about my age. I have been living with Lillian, who is 48, for almost 9 years. I love Lillian and I assumed she loved me as much. Recently a younger woman, who was Lillian's student in high school, has been spending a lot of time at our place. Ayn is 23 and a recent college graduate and I know she is NOT here to see me. I don't want anything to come between Lillian and I and especially a young cutie who doesn't fully realize how serious Lillian and I have been since Ayn was in junior high school. Magdalene Morrison