My husband is 53 and gay for about 20 years. We have been married for 28 years. I sensed something was wrong when he didn't really care if we had sex or no sex. He is a corporate lawyer so money isn't a problem with us. We sleep in separate bedrooms so he is free to have gentlemen for the night any time. I have a full plate with working for 2 non-profit organizations and volunteering for civic projects so I don't need sex. Darwin occasionally likes to watch him have sex. I know he likes to suck cocks and get fucked because I have seen it. I have walked in on him when he is alone and see him jerking off in his hand and then eating his load of juices. I left immediately, but he said he didn't mind me seeing him eat what just came out of his cock. Ann Steigerwalt