I'm 35, Grant is 37 and we have been married 12 years. Grant has worked with Bobby for 14 years. They were close friends until Bobby started hitting on Grant almost 6 years ago. Grant was ready to break their friendship until I asked him to at least try it before a great friendship is fractured. I told Grant it was OK if they tried it at our place. Several weeks later Bobby came home with Grant for dinner and whatever. After dinner, we all drank too much and Grant was unable to resist Bobby's advances. We went to the bedroom where Bobby sucked Grant, and with considerable prodding by me, Grant returned the favor. The next day when asked by me, Grant said it was OK. We continued inviting Bobby for dinner and I am happy to announce that Grant is now deliciously bisexual. I don't interfere with them, but I really get hot watching them. Grant knows this and never fails to take care of me before lights out. Anne Kapler